ChAnGe : Inevitable

Why are relationships so difficult? You try to glue it, like some glutinous vase. But you always find it breaking into more pieces every day. You try to endure with you pain in the heart. And you always end up feeling more pain than the original vain.

It is so sensitive. Living in a relationship. Trying to move on with everything that you have experienced. The bitter past. Floating above the sweet memories. Letting the memories drown in them. Is there any way to be happy from inside? Without lying to yourself what you are feeling?

Relationship is a mystery. It is sweet in the beginning. Then afterwards, it is out of my understanding to why the same people who loved your qualities, see those qualities as your disqualifies?

If they really had the problem, why did they change the problem afterwards?

People say, “You have changed”. The circumstances have changed. Not the person. The situations have made the person react in some other way. How can one know if the other has changed if the first person doesn’t even know who he himself is?

Change is inevitable. Change can come in any form. The inner person stays the same. But does the one has the heart of having purity of looking the other person with inner eyes of sensitivity? Or understanding? Or unselfishness? Or maturity? Or companionship? Or keeping-your-promises?

In the end all that matters is what you think of yourself. All that matters is did you do the right thing for yourself? Did you end up alone, but better than being in a relationship?

Let’s make a pact today. To become independent. To become so strong that nobody would dare to break us. To believe in ourselves the most. To know who we are, instead of looking forward to someone else’s compliments.

Let’s take a step forward. To the pursuit of happiness. To our inner self. Rethink the past, and accept it or forget it. But just feel good.

L.C.